You don’t have to parent alone.
We are here to help.
It’s time to stop struggling.
You didn't start your family thinking there would be this many difficulties. You dreamed of closeness, warmth, a chance to enrich your life. You didn't expect that those amazing baby days and cuddles would evolve into tantrums, fights, and refusals to put on shoes. Who knew your little one could get into so much trouble at preschool? The problems seem so simple; why aren't your go-to strategies working?!
Something has to change.
You don't have to go it alone. We started Houston Family Therapy Associates to support little kids and the people who love them. We know that every family has strengths and we know how to shine a light on them--and help you find a way to peace.
Maybe you need strategies you can use right away and the comfort of knowing you're not alone that you’ll find in our group parent classes. You may want to fine tune your approach in individual parent coaching. Your child might need the help that play therapy can provide, or maybe you wish there was a way for your whole family, including your little kids, to work together. We're here to help you find the right thing.
We're experts in play therapy.
While adults talk through things, kids make sense (and progress) by playing. How can "just" playing work? We let children make their way with us beside them, accepting who they are and helping them express and understand their feelings--all through play and activities.
Support that Works
Step 1
We start where you are
We will meet with you and cover what your struggles are and understand what you really want to change in your family, with your parenting and with your child.
Step 2
We help the whole family
We meet with your child on their own, talk with you privately so you can be open about your fears, frustrations, hopes & dreams.
Step 3
We get you back on track
We aren’t interested in you being here forever. We want you to find your way back to the family life you dreamed about.
Meet the Team
Ellen Van Wart
Licensed Professional Counselor-Associate (LPC-A), under supervision of Hayley Stulmaker, PhD, LPC-S, Registered Play Therapist-Supervisor™
Children navigate the adult world with limited autonomy and agency. Adapting to schedules, routines, and new environments can be challenging and can bring about intense feelings. And though children have a natural desire to move toward emotional regulation, they do not always know how. Instead, they might express their feelings through power struggles and aggressive behavior such as biting, yelling, and hitting. The intense behavior seems to overshadow the child’s wonderfulness; for parents, this can be confusing, frustrating, and even embarrassing.
At Houston Family Therapy Associates, I work with children and caregivers to help them tune into each other and change maladaptive behavior. I provide a safe, supportive space for children to process feelings, move toward emotional stability, and display their strengths. With caregivers, I believe in developing a collaborative, nonjudgmental alliance and sharing research-based responses that enhance the parent/child relationship.
Prior to pursuing my master’s, I worked for fourteen years as an elementary school teacher. I worked with students who struggled with managing anger, anxiety, and social relationships. I also supported parents in search of ways to help their children. When I graduated with my master’s in clinical mental health counseling from the University of Houston Victoria, Katy campus, I knew that I wanted to continue working with children and their families. I studied play therapy during my master’s program, have taken additional training through the Center for Play Therapy and The University of North Texas in Denton, Texas, and am in the process of becoming certified as a Registered Play Therapist.
Kristin Dawson
Licensed Professional Counselor-Associate (LPC-A), under supervision of Alice Payne, LPC-S, Registered Play Therapist-Supervisor™
Challenges are a typical part of childhood and family life. Sometimes it all seems to be on track and in sync, at other times demands and a fast pace become overwhelming and unmanageable. As children navigate their world and things become difficult it can be hard for them to communicate what they need. They might express their big feelings by acting out, which can be challenging for their caregivers. Finding the best strategy to help children who are struggling can be isolating and family members can become disconnected.
The best part of my job as a therapist is helping children and parents draw on their strengths and creativity to create positive change. Through play therapy and parent coaching we work together to address emotional and behavioral issues and encourage growth. As parents develop strategies for becoming more attuned to their children all are able to move forward and find joy in their unique families.
From my first high school job as a camp counselor I had my heart set on working with children. Since earning my Masters in Counseling at the University of Houston I have worked with kids of all ages in a range of settings from university research to schools and intervention programs. Throughout my career I have worked toward becoming a play therapist as I believe it is the ideal way to meet kids where they are and help them feel empowered as they grow and develop. As an LPC-Associate I work under the supervision of Alice Payne, LPC-S, RPT-S and Lynn McLean, LCSW, RPT-S.
Lynn McLean
LCSW-S, Registered Play Therapist-Supervisor ™
You know things could be better for your family. But sometimes, you’re just not sure how to fix things. As a parent coach and educator, I can help you know the next step you should take.
Parents I coach:
dread the next email or phone call from school
have tried everything, including all “helpful” ideas and suggestions
want a limit-setting approach that works
know in their heart that their family or child needs help
We’ll talk about what you’ve tried, I’ll learn about what’s worked (and what hasn’t), and together, we will put together an action plan of steps to take. At your next appointment, I’ll find out what helped (and what didn’t) and we’ll adjust the plan.
My master’s in social work is from the University of Houston. I started my career at Texas Children’s Hospital. Opening my own practice in 2004 gave me the opportunity to focus 100% on children and families and I chose to specialize in play therapy, becoming certified through the Association of Play Therapy as a Registered Play Therapist-Supervisor in 2015. I’m a long-time Houstonian and love our city’s spirit of inclusion and community. Our practice welcomes and accepts lesbian and gay parents, gender variant children, and other non-traditional family configurations, and we are active in our pursuit of welcoming children and families of all colors, faiths, and backgrounds.
Discovering your family's strengths together